Love in Action

One of the most important and visible characteristics of Christians is supposed to be our love, both for one another and for outsiders. Jesus made that very clear in his instructions to his followers. 

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. John 13:34-35 ESV

But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28 ESV

Most people who say they follow Jesus acknowledge this expectation and would claim to obey these commands. Many even really try to love everybody. But I think it does us some good to stop and consider whether we’re displaying God’s love the way we are called to do.

We first need to consider what love means here. It’s not primarily a matter of emotion, but rather of deep, genuine concern for others. We may find it very difficult to summon up affection for an enemy, or even just a stranger, but that doesn’t mean that we cannot be concerned for their well-being.

One of the dangers that we face is thinking that love is a matter of words, that we are showing love if we say we love. However, that doesn’t line up with the Bible. Jesus does not say, “Tell your enemies you love them.” He tells us to pray for our enemies, and beyond that, to “do good,” not just for our friends, neighbors, family, fellow Christians, but even to those who hate us. 

John points out that we sometimes fail in our love even to our fellow believers. 

By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. 1 John 3:16-18 ESV

I know that I am sometimes guilty of loving in word or talk rather than action, and I suspect that I am far from alone.

Talking about love is not enough, so what should our love look like? The first answer has to be that it should look like Jesus. We’re supposed to be showing the love that he’s given us; therefore, we should act like him. This raises the question, how did he demonstrate love? The big answer is dying on the cross for us. We can’t do that, and few of us will be called on to die for someone else, but there are also lots of smaller answers scattered through the gospels.

  • Jesus fed people. Yes, he did it miraculously with limited resources. Whether we are granted such a miracle or not, we can help feed people with what we have. The parable of the sheep and the goats specifically calls this out.
  • Jesus healed people. Few of us have the gift of physical healing, but we can help those who are hurt and sick in a variety of ways. The story of the Good Samaritan is a story of showing love by helping someone who has been injured.
  • Jesus spent time with people and listened to them. The woman at the well and many in her town believed in Jesus because he took the time to speak with and know her. Yes, he had advantages in knowing her history and situation, but we can learn a lot about people just by taking the time to listen to them. And the Holy Spirit can give us deeper understanding if we really listen to both the person and God. Even though he was about to solve Mary’s problem, he stopped to grieve with her over Lazarus. He took time with Nicodemus as he struggled to understand spiritual rebirth. He took time to talk with Peter in the aftermath of Peter’s denials, the crucifixion, and the resurrection.
  • Jesus told people the good news of the Kingdom of Heaven. While his commands are challenging, and his treatment of the religious elite was sometimes scathing, his message to the people around him was consistently one of hope.

Along with being an example, Jesus gave some instruction on how to treat people. 

“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. And he will place the sheep on his right, but the goats on the left. Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’ Matthew 25:31-40 ESV

The passage goes on to condemn the “goats” who did not help those in need.

Most of us have far greater material resources than Jesus had during his ministry. He chose to be a wandering teacher with no money, no fixed dwelling, just enough to get by from day to day. Whether we have much or little, we have an obligation to use what we have to show love to people, not just our fellow believers but even those who hate us passionately. Whether we can offer time, a little kindness, food, clothing, money, opportunities, hope, or something else, we need to pay attention to those around us and demonstrate God’s love. In the words of Paul: 

And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. Ephesians 6:9-10 ESV

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The Importance of Context

What an amazing promise! Such a pity that it’s made by the devil speaking to Jesus in the second of his temptations in the wilderness.

There is a sticky note on my computer monitor that says, “Always consider the context.” It was put there when I was reading a book on effective learning, especially for software developers. Awareness of context is essential for effective learning and for effective software development in general. It’s also essential for understanding the Bible.

Take a look at these two verses:

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9 ESV

You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. James 2:24 ESV

If we’re willing to cherry-pick bits of scripture and not consider context, we have your essential biblical contradiction. Paul says we’re saved by faith alone. James says it requires works. Done.

But context matters. Paul goes on in the first passage to say, “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10 ESV). Paul is assuming that the faith he’s talking about will result in works. This is evident in other passages in which Paul talks about being justified by faith, such as Romans 5 and Galatians 2-3. In Romans 5, he starts with being justified by faith and goes on to talk about rejoicing in suffering and all of the good character qualities that will come from that. In Galatians, he focuses on contrasting works of the law with faith in their power to justify, but also assumes a change in behavior resulting from the justification. In all cases, Paul’s focus is on the notion that works alone cannot save: faith is required.

James is coming from a different direction. He assumes faith throughout the discussion in James 2: 14-26. The question is whether faith that does not result in works is effective for salvation. The key notion is in verse 22: “You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works.” James is not arguing that works apart from faith can save. He is arguing that faith that doesn’t result in the life change that Paul assumes isn’t a saving faith.

Once we fully consider the context, the contradiction is a matter of perspective, not substance. If we wish to use the Bible to understand God and grow closer to Jesus, we must be careful to look at the context of what we read and memorize in several ways.

The first and most obvious way is to avoid taking a single verse of scripture out of the passage it belongs in. There are many examples of verses that can be twisted out of their intended meaning easily if pulled out of context. One example is James 4:2: “You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask.” That last part seems pretty clear that those addressed don’t have things because they don’t ask for them from God. But then if we read verse 3, it goes on to say, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” That’s an important piece of context.

One thing I have been doing to help me avoid the danger of pulling verses out of context is to memorize passages of scripture rather than individual verses. Although there are verses in the Bible that do stand alone, particularly in Proverbs, even in that collection of sayings, we must be careful. Here’s an example

If you lie down, you will not be afraid;  
     when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. 
Proverbs 3:24 ESV

That sounds broadly applicable and we could take it to mean anyone who loves God, any Christian, or even that it should be true of everyone. However, it is part of a longer thought.

My son, do not lose sight of these—
     keep sound wisdom and discretion, 
and they will be life for your soul
     and adornment for your neck. 
Then you will walk on your way securely,
     and your foot will not stumble.
If you lie down, you will not be afraid;
     when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.
Proverbs 3:21-24 ESV

Now we can see that the promise in the final verse is only for those who keep sound wisdom and discretion. The first piece of context we must always consider is the surrounding text.

We also must always consider how the Bible got to us. We read translations, and, as translator and New Testament Greek textbook author Bill Mounce is fond of saying, translation necessarily includes some level of interpretation. For example, the early Greek manuscripts of the New Testament are written in all-capital letters without spacing between words and with almost no punctuation. Consider how this impacts texts that include quotation. James 2:18 in the English Standard Version reads, “But someone will say, ‘You have faith and I have works.’ Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” On the other hand, the New American Standard Bible places the quotes differently: “But someone may well say, ‘You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works.’” Some translations even avoid the problem altogether by leaving out the quotation marks, such as the 1599 Geneva Bible and the Wycliffe Bible. Which of these approaches is correct? We don’t actually know, and it’s important to understand that as we seek to understand the intent of the passage. 

For these reasons, I choose to read the Bible in a variety of translations and make a point of recognizing the impact of differing translations of verses and passages here and for other teaching or personal purposes. Although I memorize in ESV these days and usually quote it here, I try to make sure that I am aware of alternative translations, especially those that affect the meaning.

Finally, we really do need to hold to the idea that the Bible was written for us, but not to us. The writers God chose to inspire wrote within a cultural context to specific groups of people for particular purposes with limited understanding. If we want to clearly discern the messages God has for us, we need to understand something of the context of the writers. For that, it is useful to learn some history and look at commentaries by people who have studied the history and culture as well as the text itself.  To some extent, this is simply about a deeper understanding of the stories. The stories of the woman at the well and the good Samaritan are better understood when we know about the enmity between the Samaritans and the Jews at the time. Jesus using the term “woman” to his mother is not so off-putting if we know that the term was used as an endearment at the time. Stories of Jesus interacting with Jewish leaders and teachers are much clearer when we understand the positions of the Pharisee and Sadducee factions.

As we look at scripture, we need to ask the question, “What did this mean to those who wrote it and those who first read it in their context?” before we ask the question, “What does this mean to me and my life?” Our application of the scripture will be far more effective if we understand the passage in its textual and historical contexts before attempting to determine how the passage applies to us.

I’m currently memorizing 1 John (slowly), so I have been making a point to read commentary on it, seeking to better understand the context and purposes of the writing. My understanding of the text is improved by the awareness that John is talking to a church largely about heretical teachings and teachers who claim Christ but are not living lives that reflect him. John has a number of statements about recognizing who are and are not actually followers of Christ. Some of the statements make more sense as we understand that his point is about recognizing who in the church has actually come to know and follow Jesus as opposed to those who simply claim Jesus but behave in ways that contradict that claim.

It’s very easy to grab a Bible verse out of context and use it poorly for many purposes. If you believe in Jesus, I encourage you to join me in working to consider the context of these verses and avoid those pitfalls.

Walking as Jesus Walked

A number of years ago there was a fad of church-goers wearing bracelets with “WWJD” (what would Jesus do) on them, as a reminder that we should consider what Jesus would do in all circumstances. As with most such movements, this faded quickly. Following Jesus is harder than wearing a bracelet, but the underlying truth holds: if we claim Christ, we’re supposed to walk as he walked.

Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked. 1 John 2:4-6 ESV

We know that we’re not going to achieve perfect Christ-likeness in this life. God knows that, too. If that were possible, Jesus wouldn’t have had to come into the world and die in the first place. But we’re told to try. We should be growing closer to Jesus and more like him.

The big question is “what does that mean?” What is Jesus actually like, and what are we supposed to be becoming?

I’m not going to fully answer that in this little blog post. It’s a subject that could fill a library. At the same time, there are some fundamental truths about who Jesus was that we can set forth pretty easily. Today, I’ll discuss three of them.

Jesus loves people. All people. 

He demonstrated this repeatedly while on earth. Jesus started the conversation with the Samaritan woman. Not only was she of an enemy people group, but she was also not a “good” woman, not the kind of person that a religious teacher ought to be associating with. We know he knew that. He tells her about her sinful choices, but he also offers her hope. Jesus touched lepers and healed them. They were required to call out warnings so that people would know to stay away, but he reached out to them. He helped Romans, tax-collectors, foreigners, and obvious sinners.

Since Jesus loves everyone, we need to work on loving everyone.

Jesus hates religious hypocrisy and loves truth.

He regularly calls out the hypocritical behavior of the religious elite. The Good Samaritan story is not just about who our neighbor is: it’s also about the fact that the Jewish priest and the Levite did not behave in a loving and godly way. They were not acting as neighbors to the injured man. 

The story of Jesus overturning tables and kicking the merchants out of the temple seems to have happened twice, once early in his ministry and once during his final trip to Jerusalem on his way to the cross. This is partly about treating God with respect, but it’s also about the hypocrisy and greed of the religious elite, as they would require people to exchange their money for the “right” currency (at a cost) and would work to find small flaws with their animals and force people to buy “better” ones to sacrifice.

Jesus condemns the loud prayer of self-justification and self-glorification and praises the private prayer that freely acknowledges one’s faults. He condemned religious leaders for being cups that were clean on the outside but filthy on the inside. We repeatedly see him pointing out the failures of religious leaders while offering hope to those who acknowledged their failures and sins.

If we want to follow and be like Jesus, we must not tolerate hypocrisy in ourselves or our leaders. We must acknowledge our wrongdoing and seek to do better.

Jesus is more concerned with inner substance than outward appearance.

Jesus agreed with the ten commandments that we should not murder or commit adultery. However, he also pointed out that we should not indulge in the hatred and lust that lead to those actions, equating the inward sin with the outward action. He encouraged his followers to give in secret for God’s praise rather than man’s.

Jesus was not focused on laying down a bunch of rules for people to follow. He broke rules because he was more concerned about people and doing what was right. He healed people on the Sabbath and declared that he was correct to do so. He declared that physical cleanliness was less important than inward cleanliness. The religious hypocrisy Christ hates (the dirty cup) is all about ignoring inner substance to focus on outer appearance.

Jesus did not advocate breaking laws laid down by God, saying that he had come to fulfill the law not abolish it (cf. Matthew 5:17), but he strongly disapproved of mindless rule-following that did not consider people. He was concerned with the heart of the law and the hearts of people. In the Good Samaritan story mentioned above, the priest and the Levite can justify their unneighborly behavior with legalism. After all, if they tried to help, they might end up touching a dead body and making themselves ritually unclean, but Jesus clearly doesn’t approve of focusing on the ritual instead of the person.

And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 22:35-40 ESV

To me, it seems that this notion that what matters as a follower of Jesus is not following a set of rules is a hard thing for the church and many Christians. As much as we humans do rebel against rules, we often want our religion to be a nice, orderly list of rules to follow. God, however, doesn’t work that way. He has called those of us who choose to follow Jesus to get to know him, through the Bible, through prayer, and through time with other believers, and to seek to become like him as we more clearly understand who he is. The heart of the Christian walk is to learn to love God and people.

Following Jesus is not easy; it’s just necessary.

Loving God and people is a big, complicated thing, because God is love and justice and righteousness and beyond our ability to understand. That’s part of why Jesus came to earth: to be an example. To know what he would do, we need to understand what he did. We’re not going to get it right all the time, but, if we choose Christ, the only successful path is to love God and people: to get to know God and people, to acknowledge our failures, and to get up tomorrow looking to do better and love more.

And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God. Philippians 1:9-11 ESV

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Kindness

People can be difficult to deal with. We all have rough edges. That, I feel, is one of the realities that I constantly come back to, whether it’s with students, employees, my managers, co-workers, friends, or family. People can be challenging.

But here’s the most important thing I’ve learned about that reality: those people are dealing with challenges of their own.

We live in a broken world, and life is hard. We usually don’t know everything that’s going on in other people’s lives. Any time I find myself in a deeper conversation with someone I don’t know well, I learn that they are facing hard things: illness, grief, financial hardship, broken relationships, abuse, or something else I hadn’t known about.

In my own tight circle over the last few years, there have been deaths due to cancer and dementia, other people dealing with cancer, serious mental illness, a dear friend who is dealing with her husband in the late stages of early-onset Parkinson’s, a colleague who lost her brother unexpectedly, then her mother after multiple health challenges, and also had a granddaughter going through treatment for leukemia, people who have lost jobs despite or because of trying to do the right things, people struggling with addiction, and several people dealing with childhood trauma. 

I could go on, but the point is that life can be hard, and the people around us are dealing with life’s challenges.

So what are we, as Christians, supposed to do about that?

We’re supposed to be kind.

Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, Colossians 3:12

Paul goes on to discuss bearing with one another and forgiving one another, which may focus on our relationships within the body of Christ. However, these character traits of compassion, kindness, humility, and patience are not something to turn on only when dealing with other Christ-followers. They should be who we are all the time. Jesus made that point in his story of the Good Samaritan. The Samaritan man had no reason to help the injured Jew: quite the opposite within the culture. Jesus is clearly calling us to be that neighbor. As Paul says, 

So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. Galatians 6:10

Yes, we do good especially to our fellow believers, but first it says to everyone. I would also point out that some of the people around you may also be believers who just don’t happen to attend your church. While working at a public university, I was surprised by the number of colleagues whom I eventually discovered were faithful followers of Jesus Christ.

So when a colleague is crabby, instead of snapping back, listen and look for something kind to do for them. When an employee isn’t carrying their share of the workload, don’t just assume they’re lazy. Perhaps they are, but perhaps they’re dealing with an illness or other circumstances. We shouldn’t pry, but we can ask if there’s anything they need to be successful, and we can listen to the answer.

We can always offer praise in public and make sure that criticism is offered in private and constructively. We can work to limit our own grumpiness to a select circle of confidants and pour out our troubles to God and those confidants. We can work to be quick to listen. We can look for small ways to offer a bit of cheer and brightness to those around us.

Most of all, we can assume that those around us have their own private struggles and challenges, and whatever is going on is likely not about us. We can (and should) make the effort to put it aside, give it to God, and try to be kind.

This kindness is somewhat anti-cultural, especially in the United States, where we are encouraged to stand on our two feet, defend our personal rights, and value independence above all. And it’s becoming more anti-cultural at the moment, with “empathy” getting a bad name among some who call themselves Christian and the apparent labeling of attempts to help people as “woke.” 

But the reality is that the Bible is pretty clear on this topic. Jesus helped people, including obvious sinners, and primarily condemned the self-righteous religious leaders of the day. In the rest of the New Testament, there are repeated calls from Paul, John, Peter, and the writer of Hebrews to do good, to help people, and to be kind and gentle. Even in the Old Testament, part of the call to God’s chosen is to treat strangers and the poor well and to be kind.

He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God? Micah 6:8

Kindness is not easy. It is very human to be self-centered and self-protective. Kindness is, however, a command from God, not just to our own people, but to everyone. If we claim Christ, we must work to be kind.

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