Straight Paths

Have you ever noticed that some people seem to walk through life as if they were on a straight track to a goal set very early, while others walk a path with unexpected twists and turns?

My own path was more the latter. I went off to college, having finally chosen English literature over my interest in linguistics. I wanted to double major in theater, until I figured out that all my careful planning with the catalog to make that happen in five years fell apart when faced with actual class schedules. So instead I focused on finishing the English degree in three years and started my master’s, firmly on the path to becoming an English professor. Then life happened, and I ended up switching fields entirely to computer science and working as a programmer. After a couple of years in that role, I realized I missed teaching, which I’d gotten a taste of as a graduate student in English, so I switched focus again, to full-time study. After finishing my Ph.D., I did finally become a professor, just of computer science.

In relation to that journey, I’ve long been intrigued by one of the promises from Proverbs:

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
     and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
     and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV

What does God mean when he says he’ll make our paths straight, when mine never looked very straight to me?

Now, this promise does have a prerequisite, so you may ask whether that prerequisite was met. I believe it was. Every step of that journey, I was praying and asking for God’s guidance, making the choice to trust him rather than my own wisdom. That doesn’t mean that I didn’t stumble and sin along the way; I certainly did, especially during those early college years. The big life decisions, however, were all made in a time of relative closeness to God and with a great desire to follow his lead.

Why then, the twists in the path? I believe that while I see the path as twisting, God sees it as straight. It was not the logical and obvious way to get where I ended up, but it was God’s straight path there for me.

What makes me say that? Part of it is trust in God, but part of it is what I can see looking back.

  • Had I not been an English major, I might never have gotten to know one of my dearest friends. That would have been a sad thing for both of us. And there were other people whom I would be very sorry not to have met along the way.
  • Much of what has shaped my teaching of computer science, I learned from English professors and from the excellent mentoring I received as a graduate teaching assistant in English. I believe that I became a far better teacher than I would be without that experience.
  • My writing was much improved in my years in English, and writing has been a hugely important skill for me both professionally and personally.
  • Moreover, having teaching and research experience in two very different disciplines was valuable both in my work on university-wide committees and in my role as a department chair.

I believe God used (and is using) what were twists and turns in the human view of the path to create a path that is the straight path for me to be where (and who) he wants me to be. I even believe that God can and will straighten paths for those of us who walk off the path God clearly showed them as long as we come back to trust in him fully.

My father’s path was an example of this. He was first called to preach at the tender age of 14. He was mentored by his pastor at the time and given some very early opportunities to preach. Despite changing pastors and moving, he stayed focused on that call to become a minister through most of his teenage years, and was licensed to preach by Hoffmantown Baptist Church when he was not quite 17. During his college years, however, he lost sight of his calling and made some unwise and even sinful decisions.

These decisions put Dad on a track to become a computer programmer in a bank and then at IBM. He was having great success on this track, including some leadership opportunities. However, he had also remained a committed believer who continued to grow in faith, despite having made some major life decisions without a focus on God’s guidance.

One day, God got his attention and firmly called him back to the ministry, and he responded positively. There were a few other twists in the plan–switching planned seminaries at very much the last minute because of hearing God’s instruction to go to Midwestern instead of Southwestern, leaving his growing church to become a missionary, losing his visa after 13 years of service in Indonesia–but those all fit under the umbrella of turns made under God’s direction.

I think the most powerful testimony to God’s ability to make a path straight in my father’s life was the way in which God used those years as a programmer and leader in the secular world in his roles as a missionary and missions leader later. His understanding of finance, of the IT world, of business in general, and of leadership helped shape him into the highly respected Executive Vice President and Interim President that he became.

What’s my point here?

First, I think we need to trust that God knows what he’s doing when he leads us somewhere. When the twists and turns of life don’t make sense to us, he still has a purpose, and he is using them to create the straightest possible path to the person he wants us to be in the place where he wants to use us.

Finally, I think that we should trust that all is not lost even when we have deliberately wandered away from the path God has called us to. If we come back, if we choose now to trust God with our whole heart, he can and will make our paths straight again.

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Love in Action

One of the most important and visible characteristics of Christians is supposed to be our love, both for one another and for outsiders. Jesus made that very clear in his instructions to his followers. 

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. John 13:34-35 ESV

But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28 ESV

Most people who say they follow Jesus acknowledge this expectation and would claim to obey these commands. Many even really try to love everybody. But I think it does us some good to stop and consider whether we’re displaying God’s love the way we are called to do.

We first need to consider what love means here. It’s not primarily a matter of emotion, but rather of deep, genuine concern for others. We may find it very difficult to summon up affection for an enemy, or even just a stranger, but that doesn’t mean that we cannot be concerned for their well-being.

One of the dangers that we face is thinking that love is a matter of words, that we are showing love if we say we love. However, that doesn’t line up with the Bible. Jesus does not say, “Tell your enemies you love them.” He tells us to pray for our enemies, and beyond that, to “do good,” not just for our friends, neighbors, family, fellow Christians, but even to those who hate us. 

John points out that we sometimes fail in our love even to our fellow believers. 

By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. 1 John 3:16-18 ESV

I know that I am sometimes guilty of loving in word or talk rather than action, and I suspect that I am far from alone.

Talking about love is not enough, so what should our love look like? The first answer has to be that it should look like Jesus. We’re supposed to be showing the love that he’s given us; therefore, we should act like him. This raises the question, how did he demonstrate love? The big answer is dying on the cross for us. We can’t do that, and few of us will be called on to die for someone else, but there are also lots of smaller answers scattered through the gospels.

  • Jesus fed people. Yes, he did it miraculously with limited resources. Whether we are granted such a miracle or not, we can help feed people with what we have. The parable of the sheep and the goats specifically calls this out.
  • Jesus healed people. Few of us have the gift of physical healing, but we can help those who are hurt and sick in a variety of ways. The story of the Good Samaritan is a story of showing love by helping someone who has been injured.
  • Jesus spent time with people and listened to them. The woman at the well and many in her town believed in Jesus because he took the time to speak with and know her. Yes, he had advantages in knowing her history and situation, but we can learn a lot about people just by taking the time to listen to them. And the Holy Spirit can give us deeper understanding if we really listen to both the person and God. Even though he was about to solve Mary’s problem, he stopped to grieve with her over Lazarus. He took time with Nicodemus as he struggled to understand spiritual rebirth. He took time to talk with Peter in the aftermath of Peter’s denials, the crucifixion, and the resurrection.
  • Jesus told people the good news of the Kingdom of Heaven. While his commands are challenging, and his treatment of the religious elite was sometimes scathing, his message to the people around him was consistently one of hope.

Along with being an example, Jesus gave some instruction on how to treat people. 

“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. And he will place the sheep on his right, but the goats on the left. Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’ Matthew 25:31-40 ESV

The passage goes on to condemn the “goats” who did not help those in need.

Most of us have far greater material resources than Jesus had during his ministry. He chose to be a wandering teacher with no money, no fixed dwelling, just enough to get by from day to day. Whether we have much or little, we have an obligation to use what we have to show love to people, not just our fellow believers but even those who hate us passionately. Whether we can offer time, a little kindness, food, clothing, money, opportunities, hope, or something else, we need to pay attention to those around us and demonstrate God’s love. In the words of Paul: 

And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. Ephesians 6:9-10 ESV

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The Importance of Context

What an amazing promise! Such a pity that it’s made by the devil speaking to Jesus in the second of his temptations in the wilderness.

There is a sticky note on my computer monitor that says, “Always consider the context.” It was put there when I was reading a book on effective learning, especially for software developers. Awareness of context is essential for effective learning and for effective software development in general. It’s also essential for understanding the Bible.

Take a look at these two verses:

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9 ESV

You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. James 2:24 ESV

If we’re willing to cherry-pick bits of scripture and not consider context, we have your essential biblical contradiction. Paul says we’re saved by faith alone. James says it requires works. Done.

But context matters. Paul goes on in the first passage to say, “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10 ESV). Paul is assuming that the faith he’s talking about will result in works. This is evident in other passages in which Paul talks about being justified by faith, such as Romans 5 and Galatians 2-3. In Romans 5, he starts with being justified by faith and goes on to talk about rejoicing in suffering and all of the good character qualities that will come from that. In Galatians, he focuses on contrasting works of the law with faith in their power to justify, but also assumes a change in behavior resulting from the justification. In all cases, Paul’s focus is on the notion that works alone cannot save: faith is required.

James is coming from a different direction. He assumes faith throughout the discussion in James 2: 14-26. The question is whether faith that does not result in works is effective for salvation. The key notion is in verse 22: “You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works.” James is not arguing that works apart from faith can save. He is arguing that faith that doesn’t result in the life change that Paul assumes isn’t a saving faith.

Once we fully consider the context, the contradiction is a matter of perspective, not substance. If we wish to use the Bible to understand God and grow closer to Jesus, we must be careful to look at the context of what we read and memorize in several ways.

The first and most obvious way is to avoid taking a single verse of scripture out of the passage it belongs in. There are many examples of verses that can be twisted out of their intended meaning easily if pulled out of context. One example is James 4:2: “You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask.” That last part seems pretty clear that those addressed don’t have things because they don’t ask for them from God. But then if we read verse 3, it goes on to say, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” That’s an important piece of context.

One thing I have been doing to help me avoid the danger of pulling verses out of context is to memorize passages of scripture rather than individual verses. Although there are verses in the Bible that do stand alone, particularly in Proverbs, even in that collection of sayings, we must be careful. Here’s an example

If you lie down, you will not be afraid;  
     when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. 
Proverbs 3:24 ESV

That sounds broadly applicable and we could take it to mean anyone who loves God, any Christian, or even that it should be true of everyone. However, it is part of a longer thought.

My son, do not lose sight of these—
     keep sound wisdom and discretion, 
and they will be life for your soul
     and adornment for your neck. 
Then you will walk on your way securely,
     and your foot will not stumble.
If you lie down, you will not be afraid;
     when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.
Proverbs 3:21-24 ESV

Now we can see that the promise in the final verse is only for those who keep sound wisdom and discretion. The first piece of context we must always consider is the surrounding text.

We also must always consider how the Bible got to us. We read translations, and, as translator and New Testament Greek textbook author Bill Mounce is fond of saying, translation necessarily includes some level of interpretation. For example, the early Greek manuscripts of the New Testament are written in all-capital letters without spacing between words and with almost no punctuation. Consider how this impacts texts that include quotation. James 2:18 in the English Standard Version reads, “But someone will say, ‘You have faith and I have works.’ Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” On the other hand, the New American Standard Bible places the quotes differently: “But someone may well say, ‘You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works.’” Some translations even avoid the problem altogether by leaving out the quotation marks, such as the 1599 Geneva Bible and the Wycliffe Bible. Which of these approaches is correct? We don’t actually know, and it’s important to understand that as we seek to understand the intent of the passage. 

For these reasons, I choose to read the Bible in a variety of translations and make a point of recognizing the impact of differing translations of verses and passages here and for other teaching or personal purposes. Although I memorize in ESV these days and usually quote it here, I try to make sure that I am aware of alternative translations, especially those that affect the meaning.

Finally, we really do need to hold to the idea that the Bible was written for us, but not to us. The writers God chose to inspire wrote within a cultural context to specific groups of people for particular purposes with limited understanding. If we want to clearly discern the messages God has for us, we need to understand something of the context of the writers. For that, it is useful to learn some history and look at commentaries by people who have studied the history and culture as well as the text itself.  To some extent, this is simply about a deeper understanding of the stories. The stories of the woman at the well and the good Samaritan are better understood when we know about the enmity between the Samaritans and the Jews at the time. Jesus using the term “woman” to his mother is not so off-putting if we know that the term was used as an endearment at the time. Stories of Jesus interacting with Jewish leaders and teachers are much clearer when we understand the positions of the Pharisee and Sadducee factions.

As we look at scripture, we need to ask the question, “What did this mean to those who wrote it and those who first read it in their context?” before we ask the question, “What does this mean to me and my life?” Our application of the scripture will be far more effective if we understand the passage in its textual and historical contexts before attempting to determine how the passage applies to us.

I’m currently memorizing 1 John (slowly), so I have been making a point to read commentary on it, seeking to better understand the context and purposes of the writing. My understanding of the text is improved by the awareness that John is talking to a church largely about heretical teachings and teachers who claim Christ but are not living lives that reflect him. John has a number of statements about recognizing who are and are not actually followers of Christ. Some of the statements make more sense as we understand that his point is about recognizing who in the church has actually come to know and follow Jesus as opposed to those who simply claim Jesus but behave in ways that contradict that claim.

It’s very easy to grab a Bible verse out of context and use it poorly for many purposes. If you believe in Jesus, I encourage you to join me in working to consider the context of these verses and avoid those pitfalls.

Heritage

The Bible pictured above was the first Bible I received as my very own. My paternal grandfather gave it to me for my seventh birthday. I was actually not thrilled with the color, but I was very excited to have a Bible of my own with my name on it, just like my parents’ Bibles. And I used it a lot.

That Bible was a small part of the heritage I received from my grandfather. I recently read an autobiography he wrote, mostly looking for more information about my father’s early years. I kind of knew his story, but reading it still surprised me. He was the middle living child and second son of his mother, who was the second wife of a much older man. My great-grandparents had married at ages 69 and 25. There were some much older half-siblings who seem to have been good influences in my grandfather’s life.

Unsurprisingly, my great-grandfather passed away when my grandfather was still a child. His mother remarried, but died about a year later, when my grandfather was just 13. It’s clear that the step-father was not willing to take on the task of raising the children, and his siblings seem to have been shuffled about among family quite a bit, though the youngest eventually ended up in the Baptist Children’s Home. Granddad describes living with several different family members, but was clearly always expected to pay his way with work, either bringing in money from outside or working for the family farm or business. This is not something he ever complained about; it’s just evident from the description, and it was not uncommon at the time.

Through a friend who was a Western Union messenger boy, Granddad began getting some earning opportunities with them, without letting them know he was actually too young, and eventually became the new messenger boy when the friend moved on to bigger and better things. He describes fitting his full work week around his high school schedule and paying for his first bicycle out of his earnings. Here we see the work ethic that exemplified much of my grandfather’s life and enabled his climb to the AVP of Sales role at Western Union that he lacked the college degree for. That same work ethic was deeply ingrained in my father and passed on to me and my sister.

As Granddad described his moves up into management, it’s clear that he worked to exemplify the kind of servant leadership that was evident in my father’s leadership style.

In looking at Granddad’s life, I also see where Dad got his absolute need to move and travel. My grandparents moved frequently during my father’s youth, living in several states and often moving from one rental to another within any given town or city. During Dad’s pre-teen and early teen years, Granddad was a district sales supervisor and was on the road much of the week. During summer, Dad often traveled with him. So we can probably attribute my constant moves as a young person to my grandfather.

Not every part of that heritage is positive. There were strong tempers in my paternal grandparents’ house, and a lot of yelling. That particular legacy was one my father struggled to overcome throughout his life, and I still work on it in myself.

The most important part of the heritage I received from those grandparents (really both sets of my grandparents) was a tradition of faith and service. My grandparents loved the God who made and loved them. They helped to instill in my father the love of God and concern for missions that became the center of most of his life.

My grandfather taught me about Christian service through action. I remember going with him to help set up for services at his little church in Ramsay, New Jersey. This man was someone reasonably important and very successful in his role at work, but he was also willing to spend extra time early at church just to get things set up. 

I have been blessed to have an earthly legacy of faith and Christian service. I know that not every believer has that blessing. Some don’t know much about their heritage. Some must walk away from aspects of their earthly heritage to walk toward Christ. I really can’t speak to those circumstances except to offer three truths.

First, I have an opportunity today to influence the heritage of my children, grandchildren, my niece and nephew, and their children.

You shall therefore lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and you shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Exodus 11:18-19

Second, heritage doesn’t have to be about blood. I hope that I have provided a legacy that matters to many of my students and younger co-workers. We all come in contact with other humans and can offer them interactions that provide love and godly influence. We think of Paul’s influence on Timothy, of Barnabas’s apparent influence on John Mark. We know that Timothy, in particular, had a believing mother and grandmother, but Paul claims a fatherly influence: “But you know Timothy’s proven worth, how as a son with a father he has served with me in the gospel.” Philippians 2:22 ESV

Third, all who claim Christ have an amazing spiritual heritage. We have been named fellow heirs with Christ. All of us, whether our earthly legacy seems more positive or more negative, should look to that as the most important heritage.

For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him. Romans 8:14-17 ESV

I hope that you will join me in celebrating the inheritance we have with Christ, reflecting on our earthly legacies, and seeking to share that inheritance with others.

Walking as Jesus Walked

A number of years ago there was a fad of church-goers wearing bracelets with “WWJD” (what would Jesus do) on them, as a reminder that we should consider what Jesus would do in all circumstances. As with most such movements, this faded quickly. Following Jesus is harder than wearing a bracelet, but the underlying truth holds: if we claim Christ, we’re supposed to walk as he walked.

Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked. 1 John 2:4-6 ESV

We know that we’re not going to achieve perfect Christ-likeness in this life. God knows that, too. If that were possible, Jesus wouldn’t have had to come into the world and die in the first place. But we’re told to try. We should be growing closer to Jesus and more like him.

The big question is “what does that mean?” What is Jesus actually like, and what are we supposed to be becoming?

I’m not going to fully answer that in this little blog post. It’s a subject that could fill a library. At the same time, there are some fundamental truths about who Jesus was that we can set forth pretty easily. Today, I’ll discuss three of them.

Jesus loves people. All people. 

He demonstrated this repeatedly while on earth. Jesus started the conversation with the Samaritan woman. Not only was she of an enemy people group, but she was also not a “good” woman, not the kind of person that a religious teacher ought to be associating with. We know he knew that. He tells her about her sinful choices, but he also offers her hope. Jesus touched lepers and healed them. They were required to call out warnings so that people would know to stay away, but he reached out to them. He helped Romans, tax-collectors, foreigners, and obvious sinners.

Since Jesus loves everyone, we need to work on loving everyone.

Jesus hates religious hypocrisy and loves truth.

He regularly calls out the hypocritical behavior of the religious elite. The Good Samaritan story is not just about who our neighbor is: it’s also about the fact that the Jewish priest and the Levite did not behave in a loving and godly way. They were not acting as neighbors to the injured man. 

The story of Jesus overturning tables and kicking the merchants out of the temple seems to have happened twice, once early in his ministry and once during his final trip to Jerusalem on his way to the cross. This is partly about treating God with respect, but it’s also about the hypocrisy and greed of the religious elite, as they would require people to exchange their money for the “right” currency (at a cost) and would work to find small flaws with their animals and force people to buy “better” ones to sacrifice.

Jesus condemns the loud prayer of self-justification and self-glorification and praises the private prayer that freely acknowledges one’s faults. He condemned religious leaders for being cups that were clean on the outside but filthy on the inside. We repeatedly see him pointing out the failures of religious leaders while offering hope to those who acknowledged their failures and sins.

If we want to follow and be like Jesus, we must not tolerate hypocrisy in ourselves or our leaders. We must acknowledge our wrongdoing and seek to do better.

Jesus is more concerned with inner substance than outward appearance.

Jesus agreed with the ten commandments that we should not murder or commit adultery. However, he also pointed out that we should not indulge in the hatred and lust that lead to those actions, equating the inward sin with the outward action. He encouraged his followers to give in secret for God’s praise rather than man’s.

Jesus was not focused on laying down a bunch of rules for people to follow. He broke rules because he was more concerned about people and doing what was right. He healed people on the Sabbath and declared that he was correct to do so. He declared that physical cleanliness was less important than inward cleanliness. The religious hypocrisy Christ hates (the dirty cup) is all about ignoring inner substance to focus on outer appearance.

Jesus did not advocate breaking laws laid down by God, saying that he had come to fulfill the law not abolish it (cf. Matthew 5:17), but he strongly disapproved of mindless rule-following that did not consider people. He was concerned with the heart of the law and the hearts of people. In the Good Samaritan story mentioned above, the priest and the Levite can justify their unneighborly behavior with legalism. After all, if they tried to help, they might end up touching a dead body and making themselves ritually unclean, but Jesus clearly doesn’t approve of focusing on the ritual instead of the person.

And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 22:35-40 ESV

To me, it seems that this notion that what matters as a follower of Jesus is not following a set of rules is a hard thing for the church and many Christians. As much as we humans do rebel against rules, we often want our religion to be a nice, orderly list of rules to follow. God, however, doesn’t work that way. He has called those of us who choose to follow Jesus to get to know him, through the Bible, through prayer, and through time with other believers, and to seek to become like him as we more clearly understand who he is. The heart of the Christian walk is to learn to love God and people.

Following Jesus is not easy; it’s just necessary.

Loving God and people is a big, complicated thing, because God is love and justice and righteousness and beyond our ability to understand. That’s part of why Jesus came to earth: to be an example. To know what he would do, we need to understand what he did. We’re not going to get it right all the time, but, if we choose Christ, the only successful path is to love God and people: to get to know God and people, to acknowledge our failures, and to get up tomorrow looking to do better and love more.

And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God. Philippians 1:9-11 ESV

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