It is a busy time of year for me, even more so than usual in 2020. Classes start in a week at my university, and I’m teaching in new ways, including switching from partially in person to 100% online for one of my courses in just the last week. I’ve also agreed to serve on far too many committees again. As I sit in front of my computer and look at the lengthy list of things that I had hoped to have already finished in order to make the semester go smoothly, I find myself looking for the motivation to keep going.

I know I have it easy compared to many. My work is not usually challenging physically, though it can be taxing in terms of time spent and the mental and emotional energy required. It’s also inherently deeply rewarding. I get to know with absolute certainty that I have changed people’s lives for the better.

Still, there are days when I just want to put all of it away and hide somewhere with a good book.

Where do we find the motivation to keep going and do our work well? There are many human answers to that. 

Food and shelter are important, and the Bible encourages us to work for that reason: “For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies. Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living” (2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 ESV).

Those of us who are fortunate enough to have jobs that we love will put in the effort simply out of love of the task itself and concern for those who benefit from our efforts.

Some of us also do our work well out of a sense of obligation, loyalty, or honor.

All of these things help, but we may find there are days when they are not enough to keep our attitude positive and our focus where it should be.

The problem with all of these things is that they miss the real point.

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. (Colossians 3:23-24 ESV)

I am serving the Lord Christ. Not my students. Not my department chair. Not my dean or even the university president. Not my profession. Certainly not my own reputation. The purpose behind everything I do is to serve Jesus.

The question is whether I really believe that and act that way. If I understand that I am serving Jesus, then the whole picture changes. What am I doing grumbling about work that honors my savior? Why does it matter that I have done this task a hundred times before if I am honoring God in the doing? If my project is completely changed, rendering all of my work useless, do I complain, or realize that all of the time spent was worthwhile because I did it all well with Christ in mind? If I do the work for Christ, these are opportunities for growth, not sources of frustration.

While this passage is valuable for all believers, the point is emphasized by the context. Paul is talking to slaves, people with few choices. They could not ask for a different role. They could not leave a job because it wasn’t a good fit. Paul calls on the powerless people to understand that their work is not for their owners, but for Jesus Christ.

In our current world, some of us have little choice in how we spend our time, while others have greater options. All of us have hard days, but we can make those days more rewarding by choosing to do all that we do for our Lord above all else.

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I have a love-hate relationship with my CPAP. On the one hand, I know it helps. Once I get to sleep at night, I sleep much better, waking up less frequently. I’m not tired all the time. I’m no longer afraid to sleep because I might stop breathing. I don’t wake up into bad tachycardia episodes. Using the CPAP every night has changed my life and may have lengthened it. It’s great!

On the other hand, the CPAP is not terribly comfortable. If I’m having a rough time getting to sleep, the CPAP just makes it worse. If it’s not tight enough, there’s the noise and the bits of wind in my eyes. Since I fix it so that it is tight enough, there are lines on my cheeks every morning where the straps cross my face. Quite frankly, I don’t like the thing.

But I wear it–every night–because I know it’s essential for my physical health.

There are times when following Jesus can be like that; not always pleasant, sometimes really painful. Always, however, best for our spiritual health.

Paul tells the story of his “thorn in the flesh”:

So to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:7-10 ESV)

We don’t know what Paul’s thorn was. We do know that it was unpleasant. Unpleasant enough that he “pleaded” three times for God to remove it. God doesn’t remove it. Instead, he tells Paul that his weakness is for the best, because God’s power can work perfectly in him because of his weakness. 

As Christians, we can be tempted to believe that we shouldn’t have to put up with the bad things, the hard things, in life. After all, we serve the Creator, the Healer, the Provider. He made us and the world, so he can make everything good. He can heal anything. He can provide every need and want we have. The Bible tells us that he “will wipe away every tear.”

We miss the context. Jesus will wipe our tears away in the new heaven and earth: “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away” (Revelation 21:4 ESV). This comfort and freedom from sadness and pain are a promise for the next life, not for this one.

Jesus said that he has overcome the world, right after a warning about the hard times coming: “In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world” (John 16:33b ESV). We’re still in the world, and we’re still going to face the troubles of being here. Jesus promises to be with us and bring us peace in the troubles. He doesn’t promise to keep us comfortable. Even human parents will sacrifice their children’s happiness for the sake of their safety and education.N God is much more concerned with our spiritual growth.

All of the good things are coming. Right now, we’re living in a world filled with brokenness and sin, and God is using our circumstances to mold us into the image of Jesus, to perfect his power in us. It’s not always fun. It’s definitely not always easy. As the author of Hebrews points out: “For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11 ESV).

When we focus on the things we want God to provide, especially the material things and comforts, we lose sight of what matters. We become weaker spiritually, and we miss out on the abundant life he offers us now. 

We need to understand that what is needed for our spiritual health can sometimes be hard and unpleasant. We must learn to accept what God allows into our lives and welcome his power at work within us. Then we will experience all the benefits of his life in us both now and in that place where pain and sorrow will be gone.

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I am very grateful to be spending the pandemic with my husband of 35 years. Admittedly, having two of us working from home has posed some challenges, as has spending almost all of our time in the same house. However, the ability to turn to the other and say, “Hug?” with the absolute assurance that a hug will be provided is beyond price. Being held in the arms of someone I know loves me, even when we’ve just been having a disagreement, provides comfort and security that can be hard to find in our current turbulent world.

As much as I value the feeling of being held by my husband, some of that security is illusory. There is much that he cannot protect me from, no matter how much he might wish to. 

I am deeply grateful that I am also loved by one who truly can stand against anything and whose love can never be overcome. Paul put it most eloquently: 

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39 ESV)

I may lose sight of God’s love. I may forget that I have this assurance. I may feel that earthly things are coming between me and God. Even when I allow things to interfere with my love for God, God’s love for me will stand. Always.

Even more than this, Jesus said he holds us and that no one can remove us from his grasp.

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand. I and the Father are one.” (John 10:27-30 ESV)

There is much to love in this passage. We hear Jesus, and we follow him, yet it’s not that we know him: he knows us. He knows us fully and completely, the good and the bad. Even so, he gives us eternal life and holds us securely. His love is not like ours, based on limited understanding, but rather a love that knows every flaw yet loves us more than anyone else ever could.

We are securely held by the one who is “greater than all.” No matter the challenges of life, no matter the hurt, no matter the loneliness: if we listen to Jesus and follow him, we’ll be in hands that are not just good, but perfect.

There’s a song by Casting Crowns that I love that talks about our tendency to be strong and try to control our circumstances when everything goes wrong. The name of the song is “Just Be Held,” and the message is to remember that God is still in control and holding us, so we need to “stop holding on and just be held.”

When everything is falling down around us, as it has been for many of us in these last few months, the answer is not in our strength but in the one who will always hold us.

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Truth seems to be getting harder to come by in our world. Our social media feeds are full of fake news of all kinds. The political posts are easy to locate, of course. A few months ago, several of my Facebook friends posted a story about a politician’s tax proposal, expressing significant outrage. I felt compelled to debunk the story because it ignored how income tax rates actually work in the US. If we want to be outraged about a political candidate, we should all make sure that we’re being outraged about something that is real, not something that is simply inaccurate. Similarly, there have been plenty of posts about Covid-19 that can be proved false by doing the math.

Even setting aside politics, however, I find no lack of sensational stories that show up on my feed that have already been debunked by various fact-checking sites. They’ll disappear and then show up again a year or two later.

Why is that?

As we look at these stories, one thing that is true of all of them is that they are unusual or surprising. Most of them also invoke some other negative emotions: outrage, horror, disgust. It turns out that social media hasn’t caused some sudden change in humanity that makes us tell and listen to these stories. Rather, this is the same set of motivations that have set people whispering to one another about the actions of their friends and neighbors for the long history of our fallen world. In a word, it’s gossip.

Gossip is one of those sins that good, church-going Christians tend not to want to talk about much. After all, most of us have indulged in it on occasion. Sometimes we even use making prayer requests as an excuse for gossip: “Y’all, we need to pray for the Campbells. Their oldest daughter, Maisie, has been hanging around with the wrong crowd, and my youngest has heard that she’s been pale and having some trouble keeping her breakfast down, if you know what I mean.” Not all gossip-laden prayer requests are quite so blatant, but I would guess that most of us have at least heard a prayer request that was more gossip than legitimate request without trying to stop it. I would also speculate that some of us have shared a prayer request with details that weren’t ours to share, including details that were rumor more than fact.

Because most of us have indulged in gossip and we see it as harmless, idle talk, we tend to view gossip as a “lesser sin,” not something that we need to worry quite so much about confessing and avoiding. After all, Maisie Campbell’s sins are far greater and we’re much more concerned that she confess and repent. But what is God’s view of gossip?

And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them. (Romans 1:28-32 ESV)

We see gossip here in the middle of quite a list. Most things in these verses we quickly reject. We’re not evil, or God-haters, or malicious. We’re not going to murder anyone. However, Paul doesn’t distinguish among these different forms of sin. All of these things are “what ought not to be done.” All “who practice such things deserve to die.”  They’re all sin.

Of course, as Christ-followers, we know that deserving to die because of what we have done is not the final word. Christ has died for our sins. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness,” (1 John 1:9 ESV). That is our amazing good news. However, when it comes to the “little” sins like gossip, we need to make sure we keep on reading. “If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us” (1 John 1:10 ESV).

Gossip is only one of the “little” sins we indulge in, thinking they are not a big deal, but God has made it clear that all of our sins are a big deal. We must ask God to show us the sins still in our lives today. Then we should confess those sins and turn away from them. To avoid gossip, we must make certain that everything we say, whether in person or on social media, is not only true but also worth sharing.

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Even before the drama that is 2020, we lived in a world full of change and uncertainty.

Technological change is one of the most obvious things, especially to someone of my age and above. I remember the oohs and aahs of my classmates over the 4-color graphics in the Lemonade Stand game, the first program with color that was installed on the Apple II+ computers in my high school. I compare that to the stunning graphic realism of some modern games running on my laptop. Of course, the graphics are only possible because my laptop is far more powerful than any supercomputer from my college years. Even my phone is more powerful than those old supercomputers. I also remember when my husband’s boss got one of the early cell phones. It weighed several pounds and all you could do with it was make phone calls.

For someone who works in the computer world, as I do, the technological changes are exciting, but they can also be terrifying, given the realities of cybersecurity. The internet brings amazing opportunities for connectedness and horrific potential for harm.

While technology is first in my thoughts, because of my interests and profession, we would find no lack of other kinds of change in our world. Social change, both good and bad, abounds. Science of every kind progresses, with both intended and unintended consequences. We see economic and political change across the world. The same global interconnectedness that makes it easier to share the gospel to the ends of the earth makes it easier to spread a virus.

Small wonder that we Christians like to sing about our “Solid Rock” and “Firm Foundation,” in older hymns as well as modern worship songs.  

During this time of turmoil, I’ve been thinking about one of the Bible passages that talks about rocks and foundations. This is Jesus talking in the well-known Sermon on the Mount.

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.” (Matthew 7:24-27 ESV)

I remember singing a song in Sunday School based on this passage, which seems to go by several different names, all about the wise man whose house stood firm and the foolish man whose house fell. We all loved that last line: “The house on the sand went smash.” There are some versions of the song that go on: “So build your life on the Lord Jesus Christ,” which is good, but still does not focus on the point Jesus is making here.

I think there are two things we have to take from this passage. The first is that the storms are coming. As Christians, we are sometimes surprised at the problems we face in life. After all, God is on our side, so shouldn’t we be protected from life’s problems? Unfortunately, that just isn’t Biblical. The rain falls, the floods come, and the winds blow the same for both the house on the rock and the house on the sand. 

There are exceptions when Jesus calms storms, but he warns us repeatedly of tribulation and persecution: of the storms of life. With those warnings, he makes a promise, not to take us out of the trouble, but to be with us, to help us stand firm.

The second concept we must focus on is the difference between the one who is like the wise man and the one who is like the foolish man: between the one “who hears these words of mine and does them” and the one “who hears these words of mine and does not do them.” Both hear. One does; one does not do. One obeys; one does not obey.

The storms are on their way, if they are not already in your life. Jesus says the firm foundation comes from hearing what he has said and doing it. While we think that obedience is harder in the midst of the storms, we often fall short during the easy times. We get distracted. We start to believe we can do things on our own. It is through our commitment to Christ and obedience in the calm that we build the firm foundation we need when the world is shaking.

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Despite being in my home all of the time over the last few months, I find that life is racing by. During the past spring semester, that wasn’t surprising, since I had so much work to do. However, I still have that feeling even in this “relaxed” summer period. Hours melt into days that melt into weeks with remarkable speed, while I struggle to accomplish any of the things I intended to achieve during this break from classes. 

Causes for the phenomenon are easy to find: 

• The sameness of days spent at home.
• The news, with its many sources of concern and stress.
• Family concerns, as some of my immediate family members who do not live in the same state struggle with health issues of various kinds.
• The (too) many things I had hoped to accomplish over the summer.
• Uncertainty, especially about the fall semester and preparing to teach when none of us really know what the circumstances will be when classes start (and, more importantly, several weeks after classes start).

With all of these things in my mind, I find myself racing from one task to the next, with even my Bible reading, prayer, and leisure activities feeling frantic. I’m just on a treadmill that is going way too fast.

The stresses of our current circumstances are real. As much as we may want to scream to the world to stop and give us a break, it has become quite clear that no breaks are coming any time soon.

I’m reminded of others whose problems were real. 

In 1 Kings 19, Elijah is running from the queen, Jezebel, who has sworn to kill him. God comes to him and listens to his complaint, but Elijah has to stop and listen before he can have the real conversation with God.

And he said, “Go out and stand on the mount before the Lord.” And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. And after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. And after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire the sound of a low whisper. And when Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. And behold, there came a voice to him and said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” (1 Kings 19:11-13 ESV)

The dramatic, miraculous events are not when God speaks. Only after, in the quiet, in the stillness, does the communication happen.

In 2 Kings 6, Elisha and his servant are surrounded by a large army that has come to capture him. The servant is understandably frightened, so Elisha takes time to pray that the servant’s eyes be opened. The servant then sees that God is protecting them with “chariots of fire all around Elisha” (2 Kings 6:17b ESV).

 The night before the crucifixion, Jesus knows what is coming. He knows that he is about to be betrayed by one of his chosen followers. He knows that his followers will desert him, that he will suffer a terribly painful death. His response? To spend three hours in prayer.

I know this. I know that God is central to my peace. I know that “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you” (Isaiah 26:3 ESV). This is why I’ve worked hard to maintain my Bible reading and get back into Bible memorization. Even so, I don’t always feel God’s peace. I let the rushing take over even my time with God. 

We have to stop, to breathe, to take time, to listen. That’s hard in times like these, but absolutely necessary. We must obey the instruction: “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10a ESV). That verse is well-known, but we often do not pay attention to its context. This psalm is about God’s power and protection in the midst of terrible things–disasters both natural and man-made.

God is our refuge and strength,
    a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way,
    though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea,
though its waters roar and foam,
    though the mountains tremble at its swelling. Selah
                               . . .
Come, behold the works of the Lord,
    how he has brought desolations on the earth.
He makes wars cease to the end of the earth;
    he breaks the bow and shatters the spear;
    he burns the chariots with fire.
“Be still, and know that I am God.
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth!”
The Lord of hosts is with us;
    the God of Jacob is our fortress. Selah
Psalm 46:1-3;8-11 ESV

Even n the midst of our current disasters, we are called to be still and to know that God is, in fact, God. He is in control. He is our refuge and our protection. His peace will be ours if we only stop and focus on him.

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Human beings seem to like taking sides. We usually want clear rules for what is right and what is wrong. We want to know who are the heroes and who are the villains. Even though we sometimes like our heroes flawed, we still want clarity that these are the good guys: these are the people to root for. 

I think this is especially true when it comes to religion. We want to know what we’re supposed to do and what we’re not supposed to do. That desire for clarity makes a lot of sense when we think about the many world religions that are based on fear or the appeasement of one or more gods. If my well-being or my after-life are based on following a set of rules, I want those rules to be crystal clear. I want them to be simple and without nuance.

The Christian life is not like that. Oh, there are some simple rules; the famous Ten Commandments are fairly straightforward, as is the Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12). However, the realities of walking with Christ are not quite as simple as we sometimes want to make them.

Even very good pastors can be guilty of oversimplifying. Several months back, I heard a sermon on prioritizing God in your life. The pastor asked the following question: Does putting God first mean setting aside a portion of our time for God and prioritizing to make sure that time is always spent as it should be, or does it mean making God first in all of the different areas of our life: ensuring that we keep God in mind and put him first in our family, in our work, in our leisure time, etc? 

The pastor’s point was that God does need to be first in each area of our life in order to be first in our life. If we segment off the part of our life that we give to God from everything else, then God is not really the Lord of our life: he’s just the Lord of our quiet time.

The pastor was right to point out that God needs to be first in every area of our lives, but he was wrong to say that we need to do that instead of setting aside time for God. We also need to spend time focused only on God and our relationship with him to make it possible for us to put God first in the other parts of our lives. Even Jesus needed to spend time alone with the Father in prayer. “And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he prayed” (Mark 1:35 ESV).

It’s not either/or. It’s both/and.

This issue also applies to big theological discussions. The church has been fighting over faith and works for a long, long time. If we look at verses in isolation, it is easy to see why there might be some debate on these issues. After all, we have clear Biblical statements on both sides:

• For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. (Ephesians 2:8-9 ESV)
• You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. (James 2:24 ESV)

These two verses appear to precisely contradict each other and have helped create great debate between the “saved by faith alone” camp and the “works are required” camp.

Then we look at the larger context for each.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. (Ephesians 2:8-10 ESV)

We are saved through faith. That salvation is not a result of works. Paul immediately follows that statement with the purpose of our existence: to do the good works that God has prepared for us to do.

Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered up his son Isaac on the altar? You see that faith was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works; and the Scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”—and he was called a friend of God. You see that a person is justified by works and not by faith alone. And in the same way was not also Rahab the prostitute justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out by another way? For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead. (James 2: 21-26 ESV)

James is saying that the works are a demonstration of the faith. The actions are the result of faith and proof that the faith exists. Earlier in the passage, James makes the point that demons believe in the reality of God: that belief is not a saving faith in God, but a source of great fear for them.

Then there are some comments by Jesus on the topic of works. One of the more difficult passages for the  “faith alone” camp has always been the story of the sheep and the goats.

“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’” (Matthew 25:41-43 ESV)

Jesus says here that those without good works are headed to hell. In other places, he emphasizes the importance of believing in him, but he emphasizes hearing his words and doing them, as in the story of the wise and foolish builders (see Matthew 7:24-27). Note that this story immediately follows this statement:  “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 7:21 ESV).

This is how I understand it: faith is required, and there is nothing that we can do to make ourselves good enough for God–good enough to save ourselves. However, works are also necessary because faith that does not result in works isn’t the kind of faith required. 

We should seek the faith that results in works. We should set time aside for God and work to be aware of and prioritize him in all other aspects of our lives. We should seek to see the whole of the complex and wonderful life God has for us, not jump too quickly to simple answers.

It’s Father’s Day in the United States, a day to honor fathers, especially our own fathers. Some of us have many reasons to appreciate our fathers, and I’m grateful to be one of those people. My father loves me and my sister deeply. He has been a great role model in many ways: his relationship with my mother, his love for God, his concern for truth and effective teaching of truth, and his leadership. During my own years as an administrator, he was an invaluable sounding board.

Some have less reason for joy–those whose fathers have been abusive, absent, or simply emotionally detached. There are people who have never really experienced love from their father.

One of the important descriptions of God in the Bible is “Father.” In the Old Testament, he is referred to as the father of Israel. In the New Testament, he is many times called the Father of Jesus Christ and as simply “the Father” in a number of places, as “the Father of glory” (Ephesians 1:17), and as “the Father of lights” (James 1:17 ESV).

When we become believers, the Bible calls us God’s children and him our father:

• But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God. (John 1: 12-13 ESV)
• But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian, for in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith. (Galatians 3:25-26 ESV)
• In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. (Matthew 5:16 ESV)

Jesus refers to God as “your Father” repeatedly in the Sermon on the Mount and several times elsewhere. It is clear that God is a father to those who have accepted his son.

What does that mean? 

It means he has authority over us. It means he provides for us. It means he watches over and protects us. Beyond and underlying all of those things, it means he loves us.

God loves me as a father. Given my good experiences with my earthly father, I have some idea of what that means, but my father is not perfect. He has a temper, something I now understand since I also have a temper, but as a child I sometimes found his anger scary. He was also a very young pastor for part of that time, and he was sometimes guilty of believing that a pastor’s children should be perfect. The reality is that even the best of human fathers are still human and necessarily imperfect.

In trying to understand God’s fatherly love, I have to look beyond the example my father sets. Dad’s love provides a glimpse of God’s love, but Jesus makes it clear that God’s version of fatherhood far surpasses any human’s.

So what is God’s love really like? Here are a few thoughts, though by no means a complete list.

• God’s love is based on a complete understanding of who I am. He will never learn something about me that could change how he feels.
  
  O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
  You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
        you discern my thoughts from afar.
  You search out my path and my lying down
         and are acquainted with all my ways.
  Even before a word is on my tongue,
        behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
                                                Psalm 139:1-4 ESV
  

• God’s love is sacrificial. Jesus died for my benefit. God chose to send the son who is also God in order to enable me to become his child.
  
  In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.  1 John 4:9-10 ESV
  
  
• God’s love is compassionate and giving.
  
  If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!   Matthew 7:11 ESV
  
  
• God’s love is permanent.
  
  For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39 ESV
  

As we honor our human fathers on this day set aside for them, let us also honor the heavenly Father who loves us beyond all that we can imagine.

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I see them on church signs, occasionally on billboards, frequently on Facebook: those sometimes clever sayings meant to point out that Christians are right and the rest of the world is wrong. 

I have to admit that I have often enjoyed seeing these posts. I generally agree with them, and sometimes they are quite amusing.

In recent years, however, many of them have started to bother me, particularly as I see responses of hurt and anger from non-Christians. 

Now, I’m not talking about posting Bible verses or thoughts that are intended to uplift and encourage fellow believers. I’m talking about posts that seem to exist for the sole purpose of making a jab at the enemy, scoring points for God and righteousness.

The enemy. That’s the problem, isn’t it? The jab isn’t at Satan; it’s at other human beings.

“But of course they’re the enemy. They’re attacking us, attacking everything we believe in! Naturally, we want to score points against them.”

Ever hear of Paul? Up until the moment when God suddenly stopped him on the road, he was all about persecuting and even killing the followers of Jesus. Talk about an enemy! When instructed to go help Paul, Ananias argues with God, though he does obey (see Acts chapter 9 for the full story). Paul turns from his persecution of Christians to one of the best known New Testament followers of Christ and the author of much of the New Testament. 

We cannot know who among our apparent human enemies may someday repent. We cannot know who will eventually hear God’s call and join our family. 

We live in a deeply divided society. Christian beliefs and values are under attack from many sides. In the United States, the Bill of Rights still protects us from most forms of real persecution such as Christians in some other parts of the world experience, but we can still feel hurt by ridicule and hatred. It is only natural to want to strike back. 

Only natural. Only human. But God didn’t call us to be natural or human. 

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

Matthew 5:43-48 ESV

This is a tall order. We are not perfect, and we won’t be perfect on this side of heaven. However, we are inhabited by a perfect Holy Spirit who can love our enemies, who does love our enemies just as much as he loves us. With his help, we can choose to show love, to give our defense of our beliefs with the “gentleness and respect” that Peter calls for (1 Peter 3:15).

We should make the choice to share truth in love, gently and respectfully. Then we will see results far greater than any we will find by sharing truth in ways that are just intended to prove that we’re right, or even to wound non-believers. Being right doesn’t always equate with righteousness.

And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace .

James 3:18 ESV

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As I look around the country and the world, the only word that comes to mind is groaning. We have all been groaning under the restrictions and the suffering brought on by this new coronavirus. We groan at the horror of the video where we saw a man murdered before our eyes, and that groan echoes back as we remember so many others who have suffered and died. We remember other videos that were not so prolonged and dramatic, but still showed the unthinkable. The African-Americans among us groan in pain at yet another death of their own, further proof that prejudice and oppression are still alive and far too prevalent. We groan also as the cries for justice are diluted by violence and greed. We groan. The world groans.

I struggle to find words.

It’s not that there aren’t verses and Biblical principles that apply. We know that the pain and suffering in our broken world are rooted in sin, so I could talk about that. The Bible certainly addresses the sin of partiality and makes it clear that all humans are valued by God and created in his likeness. We are to love all people, whether like us or not, so I could talk about that. I could talk about God’s concern for both justice and kindness.

These are important topics, but right now all that I have to say on them seems glib and too easy.

I find myself struggling even to know how to pray and falling back on trust; trust that God knows the needs already and will shape my intent to his will. “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God” (Romans 8:26-27 ESV). 

As I have written about before, I have some experience of being different, having lived in a land where I was the minority and worked in a field where women are still underrepresented. However, as a white woman, I will never truly grasp the struggles of my fellow Americans who are black. I can only cry for justice, seek to act with kindness, and ask God to root out the pride and partiality that still live in my heart.

This time of pain and struggle seems to call for psalms, many of which depict oppression, affliction, even despair.

Let us work to bring about the day when we no longer must say “how long?” when it comes to racial injustice. Let us look forward to that day when all nations, all ethnicities, all peoples are finally joined in peace and we see the Lord’s final salvation in a world with no more pain, no more tears, no more hatred, and no more prejudice.

He has told you, O man, what is good;

    and what does the Lord require of you

but to do justice, and to love kindness,

    and to walk humbly with your God?

Micah 6:8 ESV

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